lessons are learned the hard way
i am the type of girlfriend who cannot take an absentee boyfriend– the kind who at one point in his life will forget that i exist. blame it on work, school, or extra-curricular activities. i know the world does not revolve around me, and life goes on even if i’m not around. but hey, absence makes the heart go fonder. so, i guess it’s healthy to sometimes leave them alone. i have one request though: don’t leave me in the dark or else i will try to find you and the other girl that you are hiding. the slightest provocation drives me to be the girlfriend turned espionage.
this guy that i like has this tendency to vanish after a while, and then show up again like we pick up where we were left the last time. it’s a vicious cycle i can’t stand, but somehow having lack of a better option permitted me to rely on him. i wanna believe that he likes me too, or else i’ll be some psycho stalking him. his behavior is disgruntling and fyi: we’re not even a couple.
i realized i go ballistic at the same problems and each time, he can only say the magic word to make me feel better. after watching he’s not just that into you, and experiencing the same pitfall over and over, i think i’ve had enough (i hope).
at the end of the day, i know that there is someone who will treat me like a princess. and if there isn’t, i guess i can take care of myself.
—cubi, disappointed
douglas34 said,
March 9, 2009 at 9:02 pm
separate, unique, and whole . . . you have to learn to not mind, if not love being by yourself. then you can more easily accomplish identifying the one who wants to be with you . . .Tony (www.fixmyrelationship.wordpress.com) . . . not douglas
imcubi said,
March 9, 2009 at 9:16 pm
thanks douglas34 (or is it tony?) for your comment.
i am a work in progress, so slowly, i am learning to understand how things are. love is really an interesting topic.
dailydirtondating said,
March 10, 2009 at 12:52 am
All I can say is you need to read my book, “Desperate Dating-10 mistakes that will keep you single.” http://www.faithmurphyknight.com or any online bookstore (except borders).
imcubi said,
March 10, 2009 at 6:07 am
thanks faithmurphyknight. it seems that u are one knowledgeable person.
girls know that there is always self help resources but at the end of the day, they would rather commit mistakes and learn the hard way than religiously follow a self-help book and then realize that what they’re doing is so not them.
Ricky said,
April 3, 2009 at 5:14 am
Grabe ang mga nagre-respond sa post mo. Totoo ba ito? hahahah! Don’t worry about that guy. Maybe he’s dull. Pagbigyan mo na. May mga taong ganyan. (Ganyan din kaya ako hahahah!) hahahah! Ayusin mo na muna iyong paper mo. Everything else will follow.